A VIRTUAL
Healing & Support Space
Devote yourself to your longing,
reclaim a life that truly nourishes you,
and expand into the person you already know you are meant to be
...so you can break the cycles of loneliness, overwhelm, and disconnection from your inner knowing.
You will see me refer to this space as a circle
—what do I mean by that?
I mean that, if Hearthfire existed in the physical realm, we would all be sitting in a circle on comfy pillows around a great crackling fire, mug of tea in hand. I wouldn’t be sitting in front of you like in a classroom, I’d be right there next to you.
The symbolism of a circle is ancient. The moon is a circle. A cauldron is a circle. Often when you set a sacred space, you imagine yourself encircled in energy for your safety and protection.
In Hearthfire, we circle in sisterhood. We are encircled by the magic our ancestors once knew and that we are reclaiming again. We circle as equals because, in this space, we honor each other as sovereign beings on the path to our own healing.
So circle in, dear sister.
Circle with me in front of the hearth, with its flames crackling up towards the sky.
Circle with all of us as we look into each other’s eyes and receive each other’s individual gifts and deep presence.
Circle here to join us in the important work of breaking the cycles our ancestors could not.
Circle with us as we empower ourselves to re-enchant the world and each other.
Circle in this space knowing it will serve as the fuel for your rising.
This circle cannot be broken.
And now the circle is cast.
It’s time to remember the parts of you that you’ve lost
BELONGING
to self.
We live in a society that subtly encourages us to disconnect and even criticize every aspect of who we are. No matter your story, I believe it's possible to feel a sense of belonging to yourself and your body again.
BELONGING
to the wild.
These days, we dwell in our heated homes with running water without knowing the names of the trees or the source of the water we drink. We have strayed from our first home—the wild. But we can return again.
BELONGING
to a lineage.
You have a lineage of around six million ancestors and all of those lives existed to create the life you are living today. When we don't connect to who they were, their stories, and their ways of life, we continue the cycle of feeling like we don't belong.
BELONGING
to community.
We yearn for meaningful connections with each other—the kind of kinship where we can drop the masks of perfection and performance and be our messy selves. We want to lean on each other when times get hard and share the load that comes with being alive in these times. We cannot go this life alone.
When I refer to 'Belonging'...
I am talking about that bone-deep sense of being home. When we feel a sense of belonging to ourselves, to the wild, to what we come from, and to meaningful and inclusive community, we get free.
We use so much of our valuable brain space obsessing over the ways we aren't enough in this world. We aren't thin enough, energetic enough, ambitious enough, healthy enough, and worthy enough to feel truly liberated and loved in this world.
II'm so tired of repeating that pattern in my life, aren’t you?
Our mothers and grandmothers are tired of carrying this burden too. It's time to claim what is rightfully ours in this lifetime.
When I refer to 'Belonging'...
I am talking about that bone-deep sense of being home. When we feel a sense of belonging to ourselves, to the wild, to what we come from, and to meaningful and inclusive community, we get free.
We use so much of our valuable brain space obsessing over the ways we aren't enough in this world. We aren't thin enough, energetic enough, ambitious enough, healthy enough, and worthy enough to feel truly liberated and loved in this world.
I got so tired of repeating that pattern in my life, aren’t you?
Our mothers and grandmothers are tired of carrying this burden too. It's time to claim what is rightfully ours in this lifetime.
“At a time when I felt vulnerable and repressed, Becca offered support, and a loving and shining example of self-acceptance, which helped me finally step into my own voice.”
- Jessica
Hearthfire is for the womxn who is ready to move forward in her life and fully embody the person she knows she is meant to be.
The world is changing, culture is shifting, and you want to feel rooted and resilient enough to be responsive. You want to overcome the ancestral stories and cultural narratives that are keeping you small and immobilized.
You are ready to claim your own sense of belonging so you can show up more deeply for yourself, for the wild, for your ancestors to come, and for the community you are building.
You are ready to break the cycle, and you are ready to do it alongside others who are doing it too, in their own way.
This is ancestral healing work. This is the work of rewilding. This is resilience practice. This is magic making. This is ancient wisdom reclamation. This is empowerment.
And it is needed now more than ever.
We are a group of womxn who are ready to dig deep and devote ourselves to this vital work while holding each other through it in a deeply sacred space.
You aren’t broken because you don’t have that ideal circle of magical, empowered womxn around you right now. The system is broken and most of us haven’t been taught how to make belonging happen for ourselves. We need you to engage in this work to rise up and participate in our collective liberation.
Part of the wounding of this over culture
is teaching us that we’re too weird
for wanting this kind of connection in our lives.
But you know what? Most folks want this too, whether they’re using the same language as you or not. Part of this work is doing it alongside people who are doing this work too and won’t be judging you for what you uncover, reveal, or express.
By deepening this exploration, you’ll notice that the people in your life are more open to this way of being than you think.
You will not only be doing this for yourself to heal the cycles your ancestors never could, but you will also be magnetizing people to this work by engaging in it yourself.
You are becoming a beacon of light for this level of deep healing and leadership.
Part of the wounding of this over culture
is teaching us that we’re too weird
for wanting this kind of connection in our lives.
But you know what? Most folks want this too, whether they’re using the same language as you or not. Part of this work is doing it alongside people you know for a fact are doing this work too and won’t be judging you for what you uncover, reveal, or express.
By deepening this exploration, you’ll notice that the people in your life are more open to this way of being than you think.
You will not only be doing this for yourself to heal the cycles your ancestors never could, but you will also be magnetizing people to this work by engaging in it yourself.
You are becoming a beacon of light for this level of deep healing and leadership.
“I feel bigger, lighter, and more connected to myself, my vision for the kind of world I want to create, and to others. I have a circle of folks that meet together regularly to do this kind of work and I get to facilitate because I've learned that this is just another part of who I am."
- Erin
WHAT’S INCLUDED IN HEARTHFIRE?
Hearthfire will guide you through the seasons with weekly invitations to experience, look at, practice, or ritualize an aspect of your own healing journey to belonging.
INSPIRATION & GUIDANCE
A weekly email invitation to guide you in this work and keep you devoted to it. It will never require more than 1 hour of your time.
MONTHLY CALL WITH BECCA
Monthly live calls facilitated by Becca covering a certain topic, ritual, or access to a guest teacher, plus access to video and audio recordings of these calls.
VIRTUAL SACRED SPACE
You get access to a private sacred space 24/7 connect (that isn’t a Facebook group) to pop in, share a particularly hard moment or exciting celebration, watch call recordings, and catch up on the invitations and practices.
MONTHLY VIRTUAL CIRCLE
Monthly live virtual circles with the other womxn in Hearthfire, giving you the opportunity to share your journey and be witnessed be your fellow Hearthfire sisters. These are deeply healing!
THROUGHOUT THE YEAR, WE'LL DEEPEN INTO TOPICS LIKE...
- Conscious dreaming and how to work with your dreams
- Support in hosting your own womxn’s circle in your community
- Working with the phases of the moon on a practical and magickal level
- Cultivating ancestral knowledge in this modern time
- Navigating challenges with community care
- The worthiness wound and how to move through its blocks
- Healing ancestral wounds that are holding you back
- Living a life in sync with the seasons
- Connecting with ancestors, both practically and in the esoteric realm
- Scrying and forms of divination
- Creating safe space to navigate grief
- Healing the sisterhood wound
- Ancestral and linear time management
- Seasonal celebrations on the wheel of the year
- Unblocking stagnant creativity
- Magnetism work that isn’t spiritually bypassing
- Finding rituals of your own ancestral lineage
- Money magic and how to heal your relationship with money
“Becca has taught me how to honour my authenticity and cultivate the courage to be the confident, kind, and brave version of myself I am today.
My path has been impacted in so many ways by the spaces Becca creates and I know my ability to embrace both the joy and pain of life has been strengthened by her presence and her work.”
- Kelsey
IS THIS THE SPACE FOR YOU?
You’ve read the books and joined the groups but you’re ready to go deeper in your journey to feel a lasting sense of belonging in your life
You’ve always felt a sense of connection to the numinous, the great mystery of this life, but all the other programs you’ve looked at didn’t seem to contain enough depth and connection in it
You’re over facebook groups and want to cultivate community and connection in a different way online
You’re aware of the tendency for spiritual bypassing, cultural appropriation, and trauma insensitivity in spiritual work and you’re ready to do this work in a more aware and discerning way
You want to deepen into ritual and unleash your own magic for the benefit of the collective healing and liberation of all beings
You’re ready to put down the blueprints and dogmas that other spiritual paths provide and fully devote yourself to navigating your own unique and exquisitely designed journey of belonging
You want a place to experiment and explore belonging so that you can bring it to your own community and maybe even begin a circle and moon-ly gathering where you live
You feel fully committed to unraveling all the tales society tells you about why you aren’t good enough, smart enough, or lovable enough for this world. It’s time to end that cycle in your lineage with you.
You desire to live your life by the ebbs and flows of the seasons and cycles of the earth and moon (but like...for real)
You have a deep craving for a sacred container to do this work because all the oracle cards and journaling and spiritual Instagram posts are no substitute for a space of devoted practice and supportive sisterhood
You want to look at resolving ancestral trauma from colonization, the burning times, and patriarchal dogma
You want to dive deeper into to traditions and practices of your own ancestral lineages and weave them into your daily life
You’ve got a song in your throat and the beat of the drum in your heart, and you desperately want to let them out
You want to practice and maintain healthy relationships after years of toxic patterns of relating, even with those you love
You don’t have a lot of in-person friends or community that “get” this stuff and you just want to be able to talk about it without feeling shame or fear of judgment
You are so tired of distracting yourself with busyness, using the pursuit of perfection, and trying to outrun your inner critic that the life you really want to claim just keeps getting further and further away from you.
You are excited (and if you’re honest, a little nervous) about going to the deeper places of discomfort and vulnerability because you feel your desire to deeply devote yourself to a new way of being
If any of these resonate with you, know that you belong in Hearthfire
“Becca brought us together in a place of love and respect and facilitated a sisterhood that cannot be equaled in any other place or any other time. I have learned so much and I am honoured to be able to be a part of this work.”
- Jen
I AM BECCA PIASTRELLI, YOUR GUIDE HERE IN HEARTHFIRE
I am a writer, land steward, womxn’s coach, and ancestral folk medicine keeper. I am a storyteller, deep fertile listener, and community leader. I am in ENFJ, a Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Virgo Rising, and human design Manifesting Generator.
I’ve dedicated my life and work to supporting womxn in experiencing a deep sense of belonging through connecting with the cycles of nature, ancestral wisdom, working with their hands, and being in meaningful sisterhood. I have seen it set them free time and time again, going on to start circles in their towns, quit their toxic jobs, and shift the dynamics of their relationships.
This work is deep and ancient and powerful. I’m here to hold the most exquisite space for your time in Hearthfire, with the intention to inspire you to come closer home to yourself, connect with you on a deep level, guide you into potent ritual space, and keeping it real with belly laughs and dance parties. I’m at your back supporting you in stepping into your authentic, wisest self, while cultivating beautiful connection along the way.
I identify...
I am a woman of known ancestry of British, Welsh, Scottish, Irish, French, German, and eastern European origins, flowing further back to the Celtic, Pict, Norse, and Anglo Saxon tribes (and the nameless ones going even further than that). I am a straight cis-woman in long-term, monogamous, heterosexual partnership with a cis-man of Balkan and eastern European descent. I am able-bodied with “invisible” health burdens related to autoimmune conditions born of my fertility journey. I have access to education, healthcare, and safe housing without substantial worry of lifelong debt. I practice an earth-based spirituality rooted in the ancestral lineages of pre-Christian Old Europe. I currently live on the stolen lands of the coastal Miwok indigenous people near the Tamalpais mountain near the Pt. Reyes seashore.
I identify...
I am a woman of known ancestry of British Isle, Irish, French, German, and eastern European origins, flowing further back to the Celtic, Pict, Norse, and Anglo Saxon tribes (and the nameless ones going even further than that). I am a straight cis-woman in long-term, monogamous, heterosexual partnership with a cis-man of Balkan and eastern European descent. I am able-bodied with “invisible” health burdens related to autoimmune conditions born of my fertility journey. I have access to education, healthcare, and safe housing without substantial worry of lifelong debt. I practice an earth-based spirituality rooted in the ancestral lineages of pre-Christian Old Europe. I currently live on the stolen lands of the coastal Miwok indigenous people near the Tamalpais mountain near the Pt. Reyes seashore.
Honoring my teachers
I want to honor the incredibly generous teachers and mentors I’ve had over the years, whose lineages I am proud to be a part of, and whose works has inspired my own.
Deep gratitude to Nisha Moodley, for holding me through 2 years of deep unraveling of my old programming and showing and teaching me what it means to be in sacred sisterhood.
To Katina Mercadante, whose guidance, friendship, and continued support in our empowerment work keeps me on the path of my true core virtue and digging even deeper into how that manifests in the world.
To Liz Migliorelli, whose teaching opened up the portal to connecting with my own European earth-based indigenous roots and with the plants from a deeply rooted space that continues to serve my work in the world.
To Rain Crowe, whose teaching supported me through an even deeper integration of our history and how to apply it to my work today.
To Lara Veleda Vesta, whose teaching on ancestral connection has helped me go deeper in my own ancestral journey to achieve a gnosis that could only be mine.
To Jean Shinoda Bolen, whose book, The Millionth Circle, has helped guide me in the principles of circle holding.
Gratitude to Rachael Alaia for inspiring more honest and transparent words on this page.
Honoring my teachers
I want to honor the incredibly generous teachers and mentors I’ve had over the years, whose lineages I am proud to be a part of, and whose works has inspired my own.
Deep gratitude to Nisha Moodley, for holding me through 2 years of deep unraveling of my old programming and showing and teaching me what it means to be in sacred sisterhood.
To Katina Mercadante, whose guidance, friendship, and continued support in our empowerment work keeps me on the path of my true core virtue and digging even deeper into how that manifests in the world.
To Liz Migliorelli, whose teaching opened up the portal to connecting with my own European earth-based indigenous roots and with the plants from a deeply rooted space that continues to serve my work in the world.
To Rain Crowe, whose teaching supported me through an even deeper integration of our history and how to apply it to my work today.
To Lara Veleda Vesta, whose teaching on ancestral connection has helped me go deeper in my own ancestral journey to achieve a gnosis that could only be mine.
To Jean Shinoda Bolen, whose book, The Millionth Circle, has helped guide me in the principles of circle holding.
Gratitude to Rachael Alaia for inspiring more honest and transparent words on this page.
“I think I just have realized how deeply I needed this space this year and how nourishing it had been, and cleansing not to hold it all in my head.”
- Maya
The financial exchange for Hearthfire is $97/month.
What we’re offering you every week, year-round in Hearthfire costs less the cost of a single therapy session on a monthly basis. You are worth that level of investment, for your care, for your heart, for your ancestors, and for your community.
Cart Closes Oct 4th
Because we strongly recommend you do this work for a year to get the best results in your life, we wanted to make it easier for you so we're offering an annual membership for just $997.
TIME COMMITMENT
To get the complete experience and best results of this program, we strongly encourage you to stay for a year or one turn of the wheel. To set yourself up for success, we recommend setting aside one sacred hour per week to engage with the practices and connect with the community. You can do this, I know you can.
GIVING BACK
A portion of what comes in from this course will be donated to the Indigenous Environmental Network, RAICES, and United Plant Savers on an annual basis as a means of financial reparations for the harmful legacy of colonization and energetic reciprocity for the work we are doing in this program.
GIVE TO THE SCHOLARSHIP FUND
I hope to make scholarships available in the near future for womxn of marginalized identities. If you desire to put some resources towards sponsoring another womxn in Hearthfire, you can contribute additional funds by donating here.
“This has been an integral part of my journey of shedding ancestral shame, of going deeper with my roots, helping others do the same and to revel in being a woman from my lineage. Becca creates a space of belonging and sisterhood, a space that allows each of us to play, to explore, and to create together"
- Jaclyn
A CLOSING BLESSING
May we end the patterns of holding ourselves back from healing because we aren't enough - thin enough, energetic enough, ambitious enough, healthy enough, worthy enough to feel truly liberated and loved in this world.
May we hear the cries of our foremothers who are tired of carrying this burden alongside us. May we feel belonging in our bodies. May we feel belonging in the wild. May we feel belonging to who and what we come from. May we feel belonging with each other.
May we set ourselves free and finally find home. May we sit together to do the healing work
In this and every effort, may the balance be regained. And so it is.
Faqs
What do you mean when you say "womxn"?
Hearthfire is a space for beings who identify and lean into what is generally described as a female or feminized experience of life, which is not limited to cis-gendered women (or those born with breasts and a vagina). This is a space of belonging for all folx who yearn for a feeling of sisterhood connection and is not a space for exclusion or transphobia.
How often will we receive new materials as a member?
I release new materials at the beginning of each week. You'll receive an email and be able to log into the members-only sacred space to access the materials.
What is your refund policy? Can I cancel at any time?
Due to the digital nature of this program, all sales are final. You may cancel at any time no questions asked, no strings attached.
Is it a one time fee or do I pay monthly?
Hearthfire is a membership-based group program that will auto-charge your credit card $97 monthly (or annually if you choose that option)
When can I expect my monthly payments to be billed?
Your first payment is processed on the day you enroll, and payments are billed every 30 days thereafter.
I don’t have time to even get myself to a yoga class once a month. Will this even work for me?
It's time for real-talk sister...
If you are still reading this, it's true that you are deeply craving everything that Hearthfire is because you don't have it in your life right now. That makes sense—our society doesn't exactly provide the care, support, and deeply rooted wisdom we womxn need to flourish in our lives.
What's also true is that, as much as life can feel hard with packed calendars and navigating budgets, we are alive in a time when our time and money is a true reflection of where our values lie. So many of us wait for that day when our calendars clear up and a windfall of cash falls from the sky, but we'll likely be waiting for the rest of our lives if we live that way.
Unless we make a conscious commitment to what it is we truly crave in our lives (deeper connection with like-hearted womxn, living more intentionally with the seasons, finding a feeling of home in ourselves, and a sense of bone-deep worthiness that guides us to be more resilient and focused in our purpose), all that we desire will never manifest. It will sit in the file folders of our brains labeled someday and that is a hard way to live.
I get it—our culture has a lot of shame around making this deeper work a priority in our lives. But the system as it is no longer serves us—we agree on that.
I'm inviting you to join Hearthfire in deep commitment to yourself and to clearing these blocks that are holding you back from feeling bone-deep magic and well-being in your life. It's time, and you're worth it.
“I feel like I'm brought to this place of intimacy and connection through these activities in a way that is hard to find within a busy life.”
- Carina